| The Family Court System in the United States is broken. More and more abusive parents are awarded custody of their children because they know how to manipulate the family court system. National attention if finally being given to this problem. Parents, especially women, contact me frequently with pleas for help. On this page I share links to groups and organizations that are tying to assist parents caught in this trap and/or trying to change the law. I also include sights directed to the safety of children. |
The Center for Judicial Excellence:
A community-based organization in Marin County established to improve the public accountability of the judiciary and strengthen and maintain the integrity of the courts.
Family Court in America: Working together to protect our children in our nation's family courts.
Mothers of Lost Children:
The mission of Mothers of Lost Children is to support, nurture and pray for mothers who have been forcibly separated from their children by the family law and juvenile courts. Our
primary goal is to bring to public awareness the fact that children who report abuse, particularly incest, are regularly given into the custody or unsupervised visitation of the identified
perpetrators.
Battered Mothers Custody Conference:
This group seeks to raise public awareness by documenting civil, legal, due process, and human rights violations perpetrated on victims of domestic violence (women and children) by
family courts, their professional appointees, Child Protective Services, other government systems, and all who have built an industry which profits from the suffering of mothers and
children trying to escape domestic violence.
The Courageous Kids Network:
This organization, started by children survivors, is dedicated to stopping the continuing assault on children's human right to live free from abuse
California Protective Parents Association:
The Mission of the California Protective Parents Association is to protect children from incest and family violence through research, education and advocacy.
Custody Preparations for Moms:
This website is intended to help fit and loving mothers who wish to continue to be the primary caretakers of their children.
Women's Law:
Topics include staying safe, preparing for court, know the laws, learn about abuse, where to find help, legal statutes.
DC Volunteer Lawyers Project:
The DC Volunteer Lawyers Project is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to provide high-quality, free legal services to low-income District of Columbia residents in family law
cases. Our volunteer lawyers provide pro bono legal representation to (1) survivors of domestic violence in civil protection order, custody, visitation, divorce, child support and
immigration cases (2) children in high-conflict custody cases (3) foster parents in adoption, guardianship, placement and licensing matters (4) third-party caregivers in custody cases
AARDVARC: An Abuse, Rape & Domestic Violence Aid & Resource Collection
This site is for victims of violence, their families and friends, and the agencies and programs which serve them, both public and private. The goal of this website is to assist efforts to
aid and support those trying to remove themselves from abusive situations and build healthier, stronger lives. For individuals, we hope to provide general educational and reference
material as well as a comprehensive nationwide directory of services for "one stop shopping".
Child Support Enforcement Expert: Geraldine Jensen
WMs. Jensen is a child support enforcement expert. She founded of ACES (Association for Children for Enforcement of Support, Inc.) the nation's largest child support advocacy
organization. She has appeared on Good Morning America, Larry King Live, ABC Primetime Live, Fox News, CBS Morning Show and the Today Show just to name a few. Her life
story was an ABC movie of the Week special presentation . She has written the book "How to Collect Child Support."
SAFE START CENTER (Impact of violence on young children)
The San Francisco SafeStart program seeks to reduce the incidence and impact of violence on young children. SafeStart delivers services, develops policies, and works to improve the
systems which respond to families with young children exposed to violence. SafeStart is available to any family residing in San Francisco with a child aged 6 or under who may have
been exposed to violence. All services are optional, free and confidential, and available in English, Spanish, Cantonese and other Asian languages.
PARENTING THE AT RISK CHILD
If you have a child or children with a psychopathic con artist, this site will help you "immunize" your kids against developing antisocial behavior. The site also links to a forum and
other resources to enable you to help your child(ren) cope with the psychopathic parent.
DIRECTORY OF CRIME VICTIM SERVICES
The Online Directory of Crime Victim Services is a resource from the Office for Victims of Crime (OVC). Since its launch in 2003, the Directory has helped thousands of crime
victims and service providers find non-emergency crime victim service agencies in the United States and abroad. Search by STATE or COUNTRY. Go the home page and click
START HERE.
POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER (MAYO CLINIC HEALTH INFORMATION):
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that's triggered by a terrifying event. Symptoms may include flashbacks, nightmares and severe anxiety, as well as
uncontrollable thoughts about the event. Many people who go through traumatic events have difficulty adjusting and coping for a while. But with time and taking care of yourself, such
traumatic reactions usually get better. In some cases, though, the symptoms can get worse or last for months or even years. Sometimes they may completely shake up your life. In a case
such as this, you may have post-traumatic stress disorder. Getting treatment as soon as possible after post-traumatic stress disorder symptoms develop may prevent long-term post-
traumatic stress disorder.
PARENT GUIDE: TALK WITH YOUR KIDS ABOUT INTERNET SAFETY
Psychopaths and sociopaths are predators that love the Internet. This government site helps you learn how to talk with your kids about Internet safety and may also help you, too.
THE 14 RULES OF ONLINE SAFETY FOR CHILDREN
Chances are, your kids are a bit more savvy on the computer than you are. This is OK, but it's not to imply that you shouldn't take proper steps to ensure their online safety. Let's dive in
at this site nd take a close look at the rules your kiddos need to abide by when it comes to using the Internet.
CYBERBULLYING RESEARCH CENTER
The Cyberbullying Research Center is dedicated to providing up-to-date information about the nature, extent, causes, and consequences of cyberbullying among adolescents.
Cyberbullying can be defined as “Willful and repeated harm inflicted through the use of computers, cell phones, and other electronic devices.” It is also known as “cyber bullying,”
“electronic bullying,” “e-bullying,” “sms bullying,” “mobile bullying,” “online bullying,” “digital bullying,” or “Internet bullying.”
This web site serves as a clearinghouse of information concerning the ways adolescents use and misuse technology.
TAKING YOU CHILD TO A THERAPIST
Sometimes kids, like adults, can benefit from therapy. Therapy can help kids develop problem-solving skills and also teach them the value of seeking help. Therapists can help kids and
families cope with stress and a variety of emotional and behavioral issues. Many kids need help dealing with school stress, such as homework, test anxiety, bullying, or peer pressure.
Others need help to discuss their feelings about family issues, particularly if there's a major transition, such as a divorce, move, or serious illness.
ART THERAPY FOR CHILDREN
Art therapy for children can provide kids with an easier way to express themselves since children are more naturally artistic and creative. A young child is likely to be more
comfortable initially expressing him/herself with some crayons and markers, for example, than he/she is going to be at expressing emotions and feelings through words
A community-based organization in Marin County established to improve the public accountability of the judiciary and strengthen and maintain the integrity of the courts.
Family Court in America: Working together to protect our children in our nation's family courts.
Mothers of Lost Children:
The mission of Mothers of Lost Children is to support, nurture and pray for mothers who have been forcibly separated from their children by the family law and juvenile courts. Our
primary goal is to bring to public awareness the fact that children who report abuse, particularly incest, are regularly given into the custody or unsupervised visitation of the identified
perpetrators.
Battered Mothers Custody Conference:
This group seeks to raise public awareness by documenting civil, legal, due process, and human rights violations perpetrated on victims of domestic violence (women and children) by
family courts, their professional appointees, Child Protective Services, other government systems, and all who have built an industry which profits from the suffering of mothers and
children trying to escape domestic violence.
The Courageous Kids Network:
This organization, started by children survivors, is dedicated to stopping the continuing assault on children's human right to live free from abuse
California Protective Parents Association:
The Mission of the California Protective Parents Association is to protect children from incest and family violence through research, education and advocacy.
Custody Preparations for Moms:
This website is intended to help fit and loving mothers who wish to continue to be the primary caretakers of their children.
Women's Law:
Topics include staying safe, preparing for court, know the laws, learn about abuse, where to find help, legal statutes.
DC Volunteer Lawyers Project:
The DC Volunteer Lawyers Project is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to provide high-quality, free legal services to low-income District of Columbia residents in family law
cases. Our volunteer lawyers provide pro bono legal representation to (1) survivors of domestic violence in civil protection order, custody, visitation, divorce, child support and
immigration cases (2) children in high-conflict custody cases (3) foster parents in adoption, guardianship, placement and licensing matters (4) third-party caregivers in custody cases
AARDVARC: An Abuse, Rape & Domestic Violence Aid & Resource Collection
This site is for victims of violence, their families and friends, and the agencies and programs which serve them, both public and private. The goal of this website is to assist efforts to
aid and support those trying to remove themselves from abusive situations and build healthier, stronger lives. For individuals, we hope to provide general educational and reference
material as well as a comprehensive nationwide directory of services for "one stop shopping".
Child Support Enforcement Expert: Geraldine Jensen
WMs. Jensen is a child support enforcement expert. She founded of ACES (Association for Children for Enforcement of Support, Inc.) the nation's largest child support advocacy
organization. She has appeared on Good Morning America, Larry King Live, ABC Primetime Live, Fox News, CBS Morning Show and the Today Show just to name a few. Her life
story was an ABC movie of the Week special presentation . She has written the book "How to Collect Child Support."
SAFE START CENTER (Impact of violence on young children)
The San Francisco SafeStart program seeks to reduce the incidence and impact of violence on young children. SafeStart delivers services, develops policies, and works to improve the
systems which respond to families with young children exposed to violence. SafeStart is available to any family residing in San Francisco with a child aged 6 or under who may have
been exposed to violence. All services are optional, free and confidential, and available in English, Spanish, Cantonese and other Asian languages.
PARENTING THE AT RISK CHILD
If you have a child or children with a psychopathic con artist, this site will help you "immunize" your kids against developing antisocial behavior. The site also links to a forum and
other resources to enable you to help your child(ren) cope with the psychopathic parent.
DIRECTORY OF CRIME VICTIM SERVICES
The Online Directory of Crime Victim Services is a resource from the Office for Victims of Crime (OVC). Since its launch in 2003, the Directory has helped thousands of crime
victims and service providers find non-emergency crime victim service agencies in the United States and abroad. Search by STATE or COUNTRY. Go the home page and click
START HERE.
POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER (MAYO CLINIC HEALTH INFORMATION):
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that's triggered by a terrifying event. Symptoms may include flashbacks, nightmares and severe anxiety, as well as
uncontrollable thoughts about the event. Many people who go through traumatic events have difficulty adjusting and coping for a while. But with time and taking care of yourself, such
traumatic reactions usually get better. In some cases, though, the symptoms can get worse or last for months or even years. Sometimes they may completely shake up your life. In a case
such as this, you may have post-traumatic stress disorder. Getting treatment as soon as possible after post-traumatic stress disorder symptoms develop may prevent long-term post-
traumatic stress disorder.
PARENT GUIDE: TALK WITH YOUR KIDS ABOUT INTERNET SAFETY
Psychopaths and sociopaths are predators that love the Internet. This government site helps you learn how to talk with your kids about Internet safety and may also help you, too.
THE 14 RULES OF ONLINE SAFETY FOR CHILDREN
Chances are, your kids are a bit more savvy on the computer than you are. This is OK, but it's not to imply that you shouldn't take proper steps to ensure their online safety. Let's dive in
at this site nd take a close look at the rules your kiddos need to abide by when it comes to using the Internet.
CYBERBULLYING RESEARCH CENTER
The Cyberbullying Research Center is dedicated to providing up-to-date information about the nature, extent, causes, and consequences of cyberbullying among adolescents.
Cyberbullying can be defined as “Willful and repeated harm inflicted through the use of computers, cell phones, and other electronic devices.” It is also known as “cyber bullying,”
“electronic bullying,” “e-bullying,” “sms bullying,” “mobile bullying,” “online bullying,” “digital bullying,” or “Internet bullying.”
This web site serves as a clearinghouse of information concerning the ways adolescents use and misuse technology.
TAKING YOU CHILD TO A THERAPIST
Sometimes kids, like adults, can benefit from therapy. Therapy can help kids develop problem-solving skills and also teach them the value of seeking help. Therapists can help kids and
families cope with stress and a variety of emotional and behavioral issues. Many kids need help dealing with school stress, such as homework, test anxiety, bullying, or peer pressure.
Others need help to discuss their feelings about family issues, particularly if there's a major transition, such as a divorce, move, or serious illness.
ART THERAPY FOR CHILDREN
Art therapy for children can provide kids with an easier way to express themselves since children are more naturally artistic and creative. A young child is likely to be more
comfortable initially expressing him/herself with some crayons and markers, for example, than he/she is going to be at expressing emotions and feelings through words
| MEDIA Dr. Phil Show: Crisis in Family Court Center for Judicial Excellence: Family Court Crisis Video Slideshow: Center for Judicial Excellence: Family court Crisis: Our Children at Risk PBS Documentary on YouTube: Breaking the Silence -- Children's Stories Christian Science Monitor: Child Abuse - When Family Courts Get It Wrong |
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| Barbara Bentley Motivational Author and Speaker Featured on DATELINE NBC |
| Recipient of Foundation for Improvement of Justice Award |
| Survivor of a Psychopath |